How to Deal with the Most Annoying Habits of Your Cat?

Cats are lovable, quirky, and mysterious creatures, but every cat parent knows they can have a few habits that make us scratch our heads (and sometimes our furniture). While their independent nature and playful personalities are part of their charm, certain behaviors can be a little… frustrating. Here’s a rundown of some of the most common (and annoying) cat habits, and tips on how to manage them!

 

Scratching Everything but the Scratching Post 

Scratching is a natural behavior for cats; it helps them mark territory, keep their claws healthy, and stretch their muscles. Sometimes, they simply find furniture more appealing than a scratching post. It’s heartbreaking to see your cat tear up your favorite couch, carpet, or curtains. Even with a scratching post available, some cats prefer to scratch everything else. How to deal with it?

• Provide Multiple Scratching Options: Cats can be picky! Experiment with different types of scratchers (vertical, horizontal, cardboard, sisal) to find what they prefer.
• Place Scratchers Strategically: Put scratching posts near the furniture they usually go for, so they have an acceptable option right there.
• Use Cat Deterrent Sprays: Certain sprays can help deter cats from scratching specific areas. Test it first to make sure it’s safe for your furniture.
• Reward Good Behavior: Whenever they use their scratching post, reward them with a treat or some praise.

 

Bringing “Gifts” (Dead Mice or Bugs) 

Cats are natural hunters, and they sometimes bring home their catch as a “gift” to show affection or as a way to contribute to their "family." Finding a "present" on your doorstep—or worse, in your bed—can be unsettling (and gross). Best way to deal with it is to:

• Limit Outdoor Access: If your cat is indoor-outdoor, consider keeping them inside more often, especially during times when they’re more likely to hunt.
• Redirect Their Hunting Instincts: Play with your cat regularly using toys that mimic hunting, like feather wands or small mouse toys. This helps them fulfill that natural urge in a less… messy way.
• Be Grateful (Sort of): Remember, your cat thinks this is an act of love! While it might not feel like it, praise them (gently) and then dispose of the “gift” quietly.

 

Ignoring Their Litter Box 

There’s nothing worse than discovering that your cat has decided to “go” somewhere other than their litter box. Cats may avoid the litter box if it’s dirty, in an undesirable location, or if they’re stressed or experiencing health issues. How to manage it?

• Keep It Clean: Scoop the litter box daily and completely change the litter at least once a week.
• Consider Multiple Boxes: For multi-cat households, it’s recommended to have one litter box per cat, plus an extra. Some cats are also picky about having a “fresh” box to use.
• Consult a Vet: If the litter box avoidance persists, it could be a sign of a health issue like a urinary tract infection or arthritis.

 

Nighttime Zoomies 

Just as you’re drifting off to sleep, your cat decides to sprint around the house, knocking over objects, and generally causing chaos. Cats are naturally crepuscular, meaning they’re most active at dawn and dusk. Indoor cats, especially, may get bursts of energy at odd hours. If you want to sleep well at night, take care of your cat's needs before going to bed:

• Increase Playtime: Tire your cat out before bed with an intense play session. Laser pointers, feather toys, and interactive toys can help expend their energy.
• Scheduled Feeding: Try giving them a small meal right before bed. The “hunting, eating, and sleeping” sequence can encourage them to settle down after a meal.
• Establish a Routine: Keep a consistent bedtime and wind-down routine. Cats can learn to follow a schedule over time, especially if it includes fun play and treats before lights out.

 

Kneading (With Claws Out!)

While kneading is adorable, it can be painful if your cat is pressing their sharp claws into you. Kneading is a comforting behavior that kittens learn while nursing from their mothers. Adult cats may knead to show affection, mark territory, or simply because they’re relaxed. How to avoid pain 😉 ?

• Trim Their Nails: Keeping their nails trimmed will reduce the discomfort when they knead.
• Place a Blanket: If your cat tends to knead on your lap, keep a blanket nearby to place between your legs and their claws.
• Redirect to Soft Surfaces: Offer them a soft pillow or plush blanket to knead instead of your lap.

 

Demanding Attention (Especially When You’re Busy) 

Cats have a knack for wanting attention at the worst times, like when you’re on a Zoom call, working, or cooking. Cats may want your attention if they’re bored, hungry, or simply seeking affection. The best solution to this problem is:

• Set Play Times: Engage with your cat at set times throughout the day. This structure gives them a time to expect attention and helps reduce random interruptions.
• Interactive Toys: Keep toys that don’t require your involvement, like a cat ball tower or electronic mouse, around to entertain them when you’re occupied.
• Create a Window Perch: Cats love watching the world outside. Setting up a cozy perch with a view can keep them entertained and content.

 

Sitting on Your Keyboard or Knocking Things Over

Whether they’re sprawled across your laptop or swatting pens and water glasses off tables, cats love claiming spaces and objects as their own. Cats are naturally curious, and sitting on your keyboard might just be their way of getting your attention or exploring your workspace. If this is bit annoying you can:

• Offer Alternative High Perches: Cats often like being near you but don’t need to be on your exact work area. Place a cat tree or designated perch near your desk.
• Use Double-Sided Tape: Cats dislike the feeling of sticky surfaces. Applying a bit of double-sided tape on the edges of your desk can deter them from hopping up.
• Encourage Window Watching: Set up a comfy viewing spot for your cat by a window where they can look out and stay entertained.

Yes, cats can have some annoying habits, but it’s important to remember that most of these behaviors are rooted in natural instincts. With patience, understanding, and a few strategic adjustments, you can help minimize the frustration while still celebrating your cat’s unique personality. After all, every little quirk and habit is part of what makes them such beloved members of our families.

Embrace the quirks, laugh off the mischief, and enjoy the endless love that comes with being a cat parent!